Before you give birth, the nesting instinct kicks in and you might find yourself doing things like scraping a peeling forest mural off the dining room wall of your new/old house (my first baby), doing all the laundry and re-organizing the kitchen (before my second) or washing floors on your hands and knees with a toddler climbing on your back (my third.)
My great-grandmother (who gave birth 4 times at home, 1 boy and 3 girls) thought washing floors on your hands and knees was the best activity to bring on labour after the due date had passed, as she advised her daughter Isabel, who had 3 boys, 1 girl.
Walking until you can't any more keeps labour going or gets it started again. My contractions always stopped during the drive to the hospital, although I think if I'd stayed home any longer with my third I would've had the baby in the bathtub. After arrival at the hospital's birthing centre, I was told to walk the halls until the pains got too bad. Then Norm rolled my back with a wooden rolling pin to help ease the pain of back labour. These were the only times Norm ever used a rolling pin as he has never rolled out cookies or made a pie.
During my last couple months of pregnancy, each time, I drank a lot of raspberry leaf tea to prepare for natural childbirth but check with your doctor before you do this.
Another piece of advice comes from Canadian writer Ami McKay, author of "the birth house," published in 2006. It's been on my shelf awhile but I only recently read it, to distract myself from grief after the recent death of my dog. She was my constant companion and even on the last evening of her life sat at my side on our couch.
McKay lives in an old house near the Bay of Fundy that was once a birth house, the inspiration for her novel. She says it's traditional for a woman in early labour to bake a nutritious cake and that cracking the eggs yourself is said to speed your labour along, while the aroma of the baking cake is a nice distraction.
Maybe comforting aromas help with pain. Since my dog died, I have been baking cookies, something I haven't done for quite awhile.
I won't ever try baking McKay's recipe while in labour myself as I'm past the time of having babies, but next time there is a baby in the family I could deliver a groaning cake to their door.
Ami McKay's Groaning Cake
- 2-1/2 cups flour
- 2 tsp baking powder
- 1 tsp baking soda
- 2 tsp cinnamon
- 1/2 tsp cloves
- 3 large eggs
- 1-1/2 cups apple, peeled and grated
- 1/2 cup orange juice
- 1/2 cup vegetable oil
- 1/4 cup molasses (4 Tbsp)
- 1-1/3 cups white sugar
- 1 tsp almond extract
- Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.
- Line the bottoms of two 9 x 5" loaf tins with parchment. Oil the sides with vegetable oil. (Note: if you also flour the sides the loaves may rise higher.)
- In a large bowl, whisk together flour, baking powder, baking soda, cinnamon and cloves.
- In a separate bowl, beat eggs. Add apple, oil, molasses, orange juice, sugar, almond extract. Blend well.
- Add wet ingredients to dry ingredients. Mix well.
- Divide batter between two prepared loaf tins.
- Bake 35-40 minutes, or until a toothpick tester comes out clean.